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Monday, September 12, 2011

Taking Count of Blessings

Monday, September 12, 2011
Mabon is the time to give thanks for what we have received in the year up to now. But I feel that many of us do not actually take the time to count our blessings. It's not their fault though. What with the commitments for the kids and our busy job, not to mention the other tasks of parents, who has the time to sit still and spend time to think?
And this is something that I have always been against, we should never do so much that we don't have time for ourselves. If we are not in top shape, mentally and physically, how can we adequately raise our children?
So take the time to do that. Think back over the year and make an exhaustive list, if you can, over what you have to say 'Thank You' for.
There is one big reason why this is important. According to Zen Habits a life of gratitude will ultimately make you happy.
Here are just a few reasons why that is:
  • Because it reminds you of the positive things in your life. It makes you happy about the people in your life, whether they’re loved ones or just a stranger you met who was kind to you in some ways.
  • Because it turns bad things into good things. Having problems at work? Be grateful you have work. Be grateful you have challenges, and that life isn’t boring. Be grateful that you can learn from these challenges. Be thankful they make you a stronger person.
  • Because it reminds you of what’s important. It’s hard to complain about the little things when you give thanks that your children are alive and healthy. It’s hard to get stressed out over paying bills when you are grateful there is a roof over your head.
  • Because it reminds you to thank others. I’ll talk about this more below, but the simple act of saying “thank you” to someone can make a big difference in that person’s life. Calling them, emailing them, stopping by to say thank you … just taking that minute out of your life to tell them why you are grateful toward them is important to them. People like being appreciated for who they are and what they do. It costs you little, but makes someone else happy. And making someone else happy will make you happy.

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